A day in my life
Like so many Lourdes students, I am 'non-traditional,' which means I have a large gap between high school and college, with a family in tow, a husband, and interests outside of the college scene. About the only thing I don't have is a job, although I am here to tell you, being a Mom is a full time job in itself, and anyone who says any differently doesn't have kids.
My days are sometimes frantic, sometimes boring, and sometimes somewhere in between. A typical day starts at 7 am, when my husband goes to work and I get up to get my oldest ready for the bus. Shower, make breakfast, convince a sleepy 7 year old to wake up and get dressed, double-check his homework, double-check his lunch money and all the odds and ends of his school day.... Bus shows up at 8:45. Somewhere in there, I also have to deal with my 4 year old and the animals, who all demand breakfast at the same time.
I volunteer for a Boxer rescue, and I serve on 2 committees, plus serve on the Board of Directors. My morning is spent doing rescue stuff - returning emails, returning phone calls, calling vets and shelters and owners who wish to surrender their dogs and adopters who are having problems.... It's very rewarding, but can be draining at the same time. It's heartbreaking to hear of a Boxer in a shelter, waiting to die in the gas chamber, and not be able to help. It's heartbreaking to hear of an oldster going into a nursing home and having to give up his 10 year old Boxer, who has been his only companion for years. But some days we win some, so I keep at it.
My 4 year old and I also do our errands in the morning... bank, post office, grocery store. We have lunch and then he goes to pre-school, and I am off to the barn for the horse chores.
The mini horse needs daily medicine for Cushings Disease, stalls need cleaning, and then my fun starts. I am training to do Extreme Cowboy Racing with my Tennessee Walker, Bourbon. Every day, we practice a skill - we rope fence posts, we walk across tarps, we drag a log, we cross my inlaws' pond. It's a timed event, so we work on our speed as well as doing the obstacles. Bourbon is actually my mother in laws' horse, but in both our hearts, he belongs to me, and I belong to him. We work as a team. Our first race is in 2 weeks.
Home again, to pick up my 4 year old and get my oldest son off the bus. Snacks are served. Then I shower - I have classes on Tues and Wed nights, so I don't want to smell like a horse. Do my hair, do my make up, maybe run some laundry. Dinner comes around a little early on the nights I have class, so feed the kids and clean the kitchen. Kids to my sister in law, me off to class. 8 pm comes and off I go. Pick up the kids, help my son with homework, run their baths, read bedtime stories. Tuck in the kids, and visit with my husband, should he happen to be home early. Pick up the living room, feed the dogs, clean the catbox, and then do homework. Bedtime is sometimes 11, sometimes midnight, but whatever time it is, I have no trouble collapsing into bed and falling right to sleep.
Non traditional means having a full schedule in addition to our classes. I know my friends watch me go go go and wonder why I don't drop something - why not quit the rescue, or why not give up the horses. But these things make my life fuller and richer than college alone. To give up anything in my hectic life would mean giving up a piece of myself. I'm sure all the busy, non-traditional students would agree. Life is more than classes, and more than family, and more than hobbies. Life is a blending of all these things. I wouldn't have it any other way. Students | Stacey
Tuesday, September 04, 2007 9:49:15 PM (Atlantic Standard Time, UTC-04:00)  |
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